From the tundung traveller :)
Dad, while we were stuck in a traffic jam yesterday and talking about friends and relatives my age getting married:
"Kak, it’s not that hard. Be with someone who wants to be your equal and who wants just as much out of life as you do. Be with a man who supports your dreams and encourages you to pursue your greatest ambitions. And be with he who loves you as much as, or more than, you love him, because you deserve it and that’s what keeps the two of you grounded. That’s how mama & baba work. Don’t worry about not settling, you deserve only the best. We will keep praying the best for you.”
Dads, they don’t really say much but when they do, it’s straight to the heart. Ah well, what is meant for me will not miss me, and what missed me was never meant for me in the first place, inshaAllah.